Relafriendship

"It don't really matter if she look good in your eyesight nothing really matters if she ain't got her mid right"

People who enter your life on more than occasional basis are there to teach you something. Whether its how to be better you, the meaning of life, or just simply how to love...But when you encounter those who teach you all three it keeps you indebted to them.

When it comes to those of non-relation I've notice in my short time on earth it's not many who genuinely care about you, and not what you can do for them. They never ask you for anything but trust. Those type of people make you give them that plus more, monetary or not. What outsiders may believe are the simplest things don't realize they do so much for you.

Whether its providing you with the confidence to go after a new job with career potential, making sure your high lapel suit is fitted on you to perfection. You stay with a fresh lined cut, trimmed face, and no dirt under your finger nails. She turns a tall tee, baggy jeans, ebonics speaking brother into a sophisticated, articulate, intellectual, socially conscious man. I mean she keeps her influence on you, but still makes you feel like your "that nigga."

You get that point where you learn that life is more than about you. It's more about leaving your mark on the world that can't be changed and remembered for years to come long after you're gone. I'm a living witness, not knowing what you want out of life, but meeting someone who inspires you to be better than average, or greater than what's expected. Their are only a few you encounter and those are the one that your soul allows you to love.

That type of love that has you going out your way to much sure they're good. Whether it's making trips to ensure they have their caramel macchiato, sandwich from subway, and meds. Im notorious for stating my appreciation for brazilian weave, curly hair, caramel skin, jay-z loving, degree having women, but a few special ones will make you forget all of that. It's not many that will have you paying attention to random things they say and using that information to do things for them just so you can see them smile. Whether it's a random time you notice their hard drive is full and without telling them you buy a external hard drive. It's just little things like that you pay attention to that you wouldn't do for others.

In the event I do post this many women may "like &/or comment" thinking its referring to them, but when a man cares so much for you that his main concern is making sure you're happy even if it isn't with him speaks volumes on the kind of woman you are.

I've been fortunate to come across 1-2 phenomenal women that I'll always make sure they're good. Anybody can take care of grown man, clean, cook, and cater to a man, but those things can't make you love them. Loving someone for who they are and what represent will always overshadow the love you have for what someone can do.

For the one(s) I've been blessed to meet you already know anytime you need anything I'm forever indebted to you and it's only a phone call.

Just know I Thank You