Your Standards Can't Cost More Than You Can Offer

"I can't lie and say that she a gold digger, but like Ye' said she ain't fucking with broke niggas"

I'm all for the uplifting of my brotherhood, but some of yall have higher standards for women that'll you'll never have chance at then you do for yourself. This isn't directed at all, but mainly the men (I use the term loosely) who live in the diminutive bedroom with a double size bed and tube television down the hall or in the basement of their mothers house that they have no intentions of leaving.

You can spend your whole day tweeting requirements a woman must possess before you make any attempts at courting her such as; cooking, cleaning, looks, and income, but you can't even afford to fill up a 1/4 of a tank of gas in the car that she has to pick you up in. Sometimes you have to be real with yourself, you should only go after qualities and standards from a woman that you can reciprocate.

How can you can you expect a woman who has her shit together, keeps herself up, and is constantly progressing to settle for someone who can only offer the promise that he won't cheat, only because he knows that he can't afford to. A woman that expects a man to be able to provide doesn't mean she wants to take you for your loot, but she just looking for security that you can handle business like men are accustomed and suppose to do. Times can be hard for everyone, but when you get to the point of being comfortable in a stagnant position it's shows your lack of drive and dependency on others. Who really strives to be with the bum who's one big argument away from being kicked out of his mothers house. You can only take a few bs classes for so many years to get that refund check to stunt for a bunch of people you don't know for so long before that well runs dry.

But aye I refuse to tell a grown man how to live their life. If your comfortable living and dying in the same room you were raised in and going on half on a two for one coupon on dates from Applebee's with some chick with low self esteem be my guest. Just dont get on the Internet professing requirements for women you'll never date, and stop calling these women stuck up because they have mandatory minimums that you refuse to strive for.