"Are You a Down Ass Chick or Just a Dumbass"

You are meant to be a recipient or giver of love, not a slave to love or a master of it.

Even though love has no boundaries, and doesn't discriminate against humans, or animals, men or women, black or white, straight people, or gays I would like to focus on "down ass chicks." It seems in my opinion that a lot of young minded ladies are getting the term misinterpreted with "dumb ass."

Many situations that I hear about, but mainly see, are the "down ass chick" that has usually found herself giving her all to a man that has decided to live a life that keeps one foot in a cell, and one foot ahead of the law or just his ass on the couch. Also other situations where the man (I use this term loosely) I has the no motivation to do anything that will promote progression, stability, and happiness for the relationship.

Over the weeks, months, and years that have gone past the down ass chick role that you been accustomed to believe that you occupy. After countless time of you working 1-2 jobs, going to school, and for some raising a child you have an epiphany that you aren't being a down ass chick by staying by this man's side, you have become an adult babysitter, a caregivers and worst of all a dumbass. Unless a man is severely handicapped, under the age of 18, or taking active steps to do something actively proactive to progress in the building of the relationship he should not be taken care for extended periods of time. A male trying to break in the entertainment industry does have merits, for example if you don't see any progression with his craft or money coming in then you might be considered a dumb ass for staying by someone with a dream that has no future into becoming a reality. Also if the man is going to school that can be okay unless you start to notice that he isn't learning anything, but learning that he doesn't need to attend, but just stay enrolled so he can live off you. However their is hope for down ass chicks, not all are dumbasses some actually do it the correct way.

Michelle Obama had a career working for a university in Chicago where she pulled in a consistent 6 figure income with room for improvement. Her husband Barack was just a man out of law school who had aspirations of helping the people of Chicago directly by being a community organizer. We don't need to go to in-depth in his their story, but ladies just note she gave up her career because believed in her man's dream. Not because it was just a dream, but because she saw the enthusiasm, dedication, hard work, and effort he put forth into helping people. Not only did he provide stability, progression, and happiness for his family he provided his wife a platform to promote healthy living to millions of youth across the USA and possibly the globe.

When you feel the need to sacrifice your self worth and happiness to cater to someone who's only highlight of the day is completing the next level on Call of Duty you need to look in the mirror and ask whether or not being a dumbass is worth the life that you have. Would you rather smile or be what something that makes you cry at those times where it seems that pressure is unbearable. At the end of the day you have to decide whether you want to keep pretending to be a down ass chick or just walk away from this dumb ass situation.