Let's talk about hoes. I have 10 red flags that may be causes for concern when dealing with women. Some girls may have committed one of these offenses and may not be hoes, but you should decipher that for yourself. If a woman has been guilty a multiple offenses you need to leave her on the corner where you found her.
1. If she recently has had a baby, but is sexing someone other than the father six weeks after the delivery I'm sure that's a sign.
2. A flag should be thrown if a woman says that more women should suck their man's dick, before he cheats and has another women do it. First of all those are words from a hoe that will try to bait your mate, and also a girl who is lost.
3. If at anytime she has quoted this on a status or tweet you should be concerned "You may be where he's at but I'm where he wanna be"
4. If she complains that its unfair that males can sex a multitude of women and society deems it okay, but if a woman does it she's a hoe. She is just looking for an excuse to fuck, harry, Barry, Larry, Joshua, miguel, Christopher, Antoine, John, William, Kevin, Rufus, and Todd.
5 Any girl who doesn't hang around females, or claims not to has to have some hoe in her, their is no other reason why she only hangs around males.
6. If she blames alcohol for her promiscuity then shes a hoe, and a liar. A drunken mind speaks no lies, or sexes individuals without intent.
7. If she has claimed to be in love more than 3 times in a 12 month period, I normally would call her a love prostitute. For the sake of this blog she's a love hoe.
8. If you have ever caught in the club begging for drinks while dry humping on a nigga to "Sponser" by Teari Mari then that should be a sign to you.
9. If her friends are certified hoes, she is also, or she will be soon. Birds of a feather flock together.
10. If she has spent the whole time trying to convince herself that I do not know what I am talking about, and GOD knows her heart truth be told he knows, I know, and she knows that she's a hoe.
I am sorry for the ignorance you may have read, but I hope you understood the message.
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Sunday, June 26, 2011
"Are You a Down Ass Chick or Just a Dumbass"
You are meant to be a recipient or giver of love, not a slave to love or a master of it.
Even though love has no boundaries, and doesn't discriminate against humans, or animals, men or women, black or white, straight people, or gays I would like to focus on "down ass chicks." It seems in my opinion that a lot of young minded ladies are getting the term misinterpreted with "dumb ass."
Many situations that I hear about, but mainly see, are the "down ass chick" that has usually found herself giving her all to a man that has decided to live a life that keeps one foot in a cell, and one foot ahead of the law or just his ass on the couch. Also other situations where the man (I use this term loosely) I has the no motivation to do anything that will promote progression, stability, and happiness for the relationship.
Over the weeks, months, and years that have gone past the down ass chick role that you been accustomed to believe that you occupy. After countless time of you working 1-2 jobs, going to school, and for some raising a child you have an epiphany that you aren't being a down ass chick by staying by this man's side, you have become an adult babysitter, a caregivers and worst of all a dumbass. Unless a man is severely handicapped, under the age of 18, or taking active steps to do something actively proactive to progress in the building of the relationship he should not be taken care for extended periods of time. A male trying to break in the entertainment industry does have merits, for example if you don't see any progression with his craft or money coming in then you might be considered a dumb ass for staying by someone with a dream that has no future into becoming a reality. Also if the man is going to school that can be okay unless you start to notice that he isn't learning anything, but learning that he doesn't need to attend, but just stay enrolled so he can live off you. However their is hope for down ass chicks, not all are dumbasses some actually do it the correct way.
Michelle Obama had a career working for a university in Chicago where she pulled in a consistent 6 figure income with room for improvement. Her husband Barack was just a man out of law school who had aspirations of helping the people of Chicago directly by being a community organizer. We don't need to go to in-depth in his their story, but ladies just note she gave up her career because believed in her man's dream. Not because it was just a dream, but because she saw the enthusiasm, dedication, hard work, and effort he put forth into helping people. Not only did he provide stability, progression, and happiness for his family he provided his wife a platform to promote healthy living to millions of youth across the USA and possibly the globe.
When you feel the need to sacrifice your self worth and happiness to cater to someone who's only highlight of the day is completing the next level on Call of Duty you need to look in the mirror and ask whether or not being a dumbass is worth the life that you have. Would you rather smile or be what something that makes you cry at those times where it seems that pressure is unbearable. At the end of the day you have to decide whether you want to keep pretending to be a down ass chick or just walk away from this dumb ass situation.
Even though love has no boundaries, and doesn't discriminate against humans, or animals, men or women, black or white, straight people, or gays I would like to focus on "down ass chicks." It seems in my opinion that a lot of young minded ladies are getting the term misinterpreted with "dumb ass."
Many situations that I hear about, but mainly see, are the "down ass chick" that has usually found herself giving her all to a man that has decided to live a life that keeps one foot in a cell, and one foot ahead of the law or just his ass on the couch. Also other situations where the man (I use this term loosely) I has the no motivation to do anything that will promote progression, stability, and happiness for the relationship.
Over the weeks, months, and years that have gone past the down ass chick role that you been accustomed to believe that you occupy. After countless time of you working 1-2 jobs, going to school, and for some raising a child you have an epiphany that you aren't being a down ass chick by staying by this man's side, you have become an adult babysitter, a caregivers and worst of all a dumbass. Unless a man is severely handicapped, under the age of 18, or taking active steps to do something actively proactive to progress in the building of the relationship he should not be taken care for extended periods of time. A male trying to break in the entertainment industry does have merits, for example if you don't see any progression with his craft or money coming in then you might be considered a dumb ass for staying by someone with a dream that has no future into becoming a reality. Also if the man is going to school that can be okay unless you start to notice that he isn't learning anything, but learning that he doesn't need to attend, but just stay enrolled so he can live off you. However their is hope for down ass chicks, not all are dumbasses some actually do it the correct way.
Michelle Obama had a career working for a university in Chicago where she pulled in a consistent 6 figure income with room for improvement. Her husband Barack was just a man out of law school who had aspirations of helping the people of Chicago directly by being a community organizer. We don't need to go to in-depth in his their story, but ladies just note she gave up her career because believed in her man's dream. Not because it was just a dream, but because she saw the enthusiasm, dedication, hard work, and effort he put forth into helping people. Not only did he provide stability, progression, and happiness for his family he provided his wife a platform to promote healthy living to millions of youth across the USA and possibly the globe.
When you feel the need to sacrifice your self worth and happiness to cater to someone who's only highlight of the day is completing the next level on Call of Duty you need to look in the mirror and ask whether or not being a dumbass is worth the life that you have. Would you rather smile or be what something that makes you cry at those times where it seems that pressure is unbearable. At the end of the day you have to decide whether you want to keep pretending to be a down ass chick or just walk away from this dumb ass situation.
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
I Want Answers Part 2
1. Why do girls paint a man's name on their fingernails. Does it serve the same purpose as wedding ring, which is to show that you are taken?
2. Why do males claim to be CEO, Executives, Presidents, etc of cliques that they don't have business licenses to, hell these niggaz don't even own the name?
3. Why are you at age 25 still bragging about having your own place, car, and job. At 20 it was cool, but your a "grown ass person" its expected?
4. Why are you ladies calling your boyfriend "daddy" you're not his kid?
5. Why are you still putting hood tags on your boyfriends name? Ex 3boo7
6. If you don't have a job why are you excited about the weekend? I get it, you want to see people who are working during your scrub hours.
7. Why do you have millionaire dreams, but minimum wage work ethic?
8. Why do you brag about being wifey, and talk down on his sidelines? You basically admit that you're comfortable being cheated on as long as you're the one he cuddles with and takes to Golden Corral. *inspired by A.Y.F.*
9. Why are you putting thousands of dollars into a car that doesn't come with an extended warranty, plus its your main vehicle?
10. Why are you still calling yourself a 'bad b***h,' are pretty sophisticated women played out?
11. Why you calling your self a 'real b***h' when your Gucci fit came from China, your hair is from Lee's, and your ass is courtesy of booty pads?
12. Why you are making political statements, when your're not even political informed? You end up sounding like a dumb ass.
13. Why do you keep your kid in 50 dollar toddler jordans, but can't keep him in fresh diapers?
14. Why do born again virgins think going to church erased their hoeish past? Niggaz still remember and GOD still knows.
15. Why haven't you learn the social network rule yet, '@ em, or dap em'?
16. Why are you attending college night when you have never attended college? Shit you never really attended high school regularly.
17. Why are we afraid to tell our 'bros' we love em until they die or are sent upstate?
18. Why do we talk down on welfare recipients? Don't look down unless you are lending a hand to lift them up.
19. If you know your friend doesn't take care of their responsibilities why aren't you checking him/her? No matter the situation they might hate you now, but will respect you later.
20. Since we all can't be hood niggaz why you still trying? It's okay to not give negative stereotypes definition, being black and knowledgeable is good. The Malcolm X movement did more good than the Tookie Williams movement. Believe that.
Remember sometimes I sprinkle ignorance on the intellect. Everybody needs salt on the salad, but some of yall are going to die due to high blood pressure. Follow me on Twitter blove402 or Facebook Brandon Lovelace
2. Why do males claim to be CEO, Executives, Presidents, etc of cliques that they don't have business licenses to, hell these niggaz don't even own the name?
3. Why are you at age 25 still bragging about having your own place, car, and job. At 20 it was cool, but your a "grown ass person" its expected?
4. Why are you ladies calling your boyfriend "daddy" you're not his kid?
5. Why are you still putting hood tags on your boyfriends name? Ex 3boo7
6. If you don't have a job why are you excited about the weekend? I get it, you want to see people who are working during your scrub hours.
7. Why do you have millionaire dreams, but minimum wage work ethic?
8. Why do you brag about being wifey, and talk down on his sidelines? You basically admit that you're comfortable being cheated on as long as you're the one he cuddles with and takes to Golden Corral. *inspired by A.Y.F.*
9. Why are you putting thousands of dollars into a car that doesn't come with an extended warranty, plus its your main vehicle?
10. Why are you still calling yourself a 'bad b***h,' are pretty sophisticated women played out?
11. Why you calling your self a 'real b***h' when your Gucci fit came from China, your hair is from Lee's, and your ass is courtesy of booty pads?
12. Why you are making political statements, when your're not even political informed? You end up sounding like a dumb ass.
13. Why do you keep your kid in 50 dollar toddler jordans, but can't keep him in fresh diapers?
14. Why do born again virgins think going to church erased their hoeish past? Niggaz still remember and GOD still knows.
15. Why haven't you learn the social network rule yet, '@ em, or dap em'?
16. Why are you attending college night when you have never attended college? Shit you never really attended high school regularly.
17. Why are we afraid to tell our 'bros' we love em until they die or are sent upstate?
18. Why do we talk down on welfare recipients? Don't look down unless you are lending a hand to lift them up.
19. If you know your friend doesn't take care of their responsibilities why aren't you checking him/her? No matter the situation they might hate you now, but will respect you later.
20. Since we all can't be hood niggaz why you still trying? It's okay to not give negative stereotypes definition, being black and knowledgeable is good. The Malcolm X movement did more good than the Tookie Williams movement. Believe that.
Remember sometimes I sprinkle ignorance on the intellect. Everybody needs salt on the salad, but some of yall are going to die due to high blood pressure. Follow me on Twitter blove402 or Facebook Brandon Lovelace
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Ten Things I Need Out of Ny Potential Queen.
I don't ask for much in a woman, I just demand someone who isn't content. I need someone who's always looking to progress in life. A strong woman's life is never complete, at least in ny opinion. I always strive to do my best in life my queen has to also, because queens don't trail they stay on the side of their King.
1. I like women with either a full time job, and/or in college. Every woman deserves to be spoiled, but I am not taken care of you if we aren't married.
2. Progress my lifestyle in positive ways. Ex. Motivate a brother to live healthy and do good deeds.
3. You have to have enough sense to understand what should go on social networking sites.
4. I need you to be comfortable with a man doing something nice for you. I understand your independent, but depend on me to pay for you sometimes.
5. You have to put your more value in your mind rather than your p***y.
6. You can't be a regular at the club 3 days a week. It's okay to sit back and chill.
7. You can be anything but average. Have something that most lack. I need those intangibles.
8. Demand of me what you expect of yourself.
9. I have to be able to feel comfortable telling you my aspirations, fears, and dreams.
10. The attraction I have for your outer appearance must match your internal.
1. I like women with either a full time job, and/or in college. Every woman deserves to be spoiled, but I am not taken care of you if we aren't married.
2. Progress my lifestyle in positive ways. Ex. Motivate a brother to live healthy and do good deeds.
3. You have to have enough sense to understand what should go on social networking sites.
4. I need you to be comfortable with a man doing something nice for you. I understand your independent, but depend on me to pay for you sometimes.
5. You have to put your more value in your mind rather than your p***y.
6. You can't be a regular at the club 3 days a week. It's okay to sit back and chill.
7. You can be anything but average. Have something that most lack. I need those intangibles.
8. Demand of me what you expect of yourself.
9. I have to be able to feel comfortable telling you my aspirations, fears, and dreams.
10. The attraction I have for your outer appearance must match your internal.
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